I wish I could maintain this attitude.  I really do want to improve, and if I am the one who figures out what I am doing wrong, I am pretty good at changing to correct the problem.  Yet if someone came up to me and said, “Let me tell you what is wrong with you,” I wouldn’t want to hear it.

Since other people are a lot like me: How can I give advice in a way that they will want to follow it?  Telling someone what he should do sounds an awful lot like “Let me tell you what is wrong w...


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