I not only use all the brains that I have, but all that I can borrow. – Woodrow Wilson

August 4, 2011
                

      Frank Sinatra sang “My Way”.  It is a sad song that starts mentioning regrets and ends with a defiant boast that at least “I did it my way.”  I wonder how many of the regrets were the direct result of insisting on doing things “my way.” 

      It should be obvious that each of us is living with a finite brain in a world of infinite possibilities.  It is foolish to think that I have all the answers, or even the best answer, for all the situations I will encounter.  It is far smarter to follow President Wilson’s example and seek out people with different knowledge and experiences and use their brain power to improve my own ideas and actions.

      Each of us is responsible for choosing our own path in life, but that should not stop us from taking advantage of the broadest viewpoints that we can gather.

 

I would rather try to persuade a man to go along, because once I have persuaded him, he will stick. If I scare him, he will stay just as long as he is scared, and then he is gone. – Dwight D. Eisenhower

July 28, 2011

      I don’t like it when somebody tells me I have to do something.  If that person is more powerful than I am (like a teacher, parent or police officer), I will probably do it while he is standing there supervising me, but I am not likely to continue doing it once he is gone.  But when somebody takes the time to convince me that it is a good idea to do something, I’ll continue doing it without anyone having to supervise me.

      General Eisenhower could definitely getting the soldie...


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It’s important for us to pause for a moment and make sure that we're talking with each other in a way that heals, not a way that wounds. - Barack Obama

July 20, 2011

Just because our politicians aren't following their our advice during the discussions of economic issues, doesn't mean that we shouldn't.  It is exactly when we are addressing issues where any solution involves pain to at least some of the people involved that we should be most responsive to the views of others and most careful in our choice of words.
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Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate. – Albert Schweitzer

July 14, 2011

Your kind words and actions may not always be returned in kind.  The other person may be in an exceptionally bad mood or may have experiences that make him distrust your real intent.  However, if you can manage to be consistently kind, that consistency will reduce the resistance to your approaches.  It is when our own feelings of anger and fear make it hardest to be kind that our kindness will have its most important impact.


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It isn't the mountains ahead to climb that wear you out; it's the pebble in your shoe. – Muhammad Ali

July 7, 2011
        
Tackling a challenging goal can be a fun adventure, if you are properly prepared.  But if you only think about the distant goal and ignore the “minor details”, the small omissions will make your trip painful and may prevent you from ever achieving your goal.
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Americans are not a perfect people, but we are called to a perfect mission. – Andrew Jackson

July 2, 2011
 (Space shuttle Enterprise)

            Andrew Jackson sought to eliminate all Indians east of the Mississippi.  Many of the men who signed the Declaration of Independence (declaring that “all men are created equal”) owned slaves.  History is full of examples of our imperfections.  The United States did not become a great nation because its citizens are superior to other humans.  The key to our national success is that the fallible people involved in our government have continually been ...


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At every crisis in one's life, it is absolute salvation to have some sympathetic friend to whom you can think aloud without restraint or misgiving. – Woodrow Wilson

June 24, 2011
President Wilson can be considered an expert is dealing with crises.  His wife died while he was in office and he was President throughout World War I.  It is interesting that he doesn’t mention getting advice as being useful.  By far the biggest help is a trusted person who listens well.
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Children are our most valuable natural resource. –Herbert Hoover

June 16, 2011
As an old retiree, I have lots of freedom in choosing how to use my time and time to think about my legacy.
            

      Nothing that we do, create or acquire will last unless we raise another generation that is prepared to maintain what we have created and to build on our accomplishments.  If we don’t prepare the children in our community to carry on after we have gone, nothing else will matter.


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Laughing at the absurd reduces tension. Laughing at people does the opposite. – Richard Galbraith

June 9, 2011

Laughter is a powerful shrinking agent.  When a problem appears to be too big, joking about the situation makes the problem seem smaller.  When people are uptight, finding something silly to laugh about reduces the tension.  Unfortunately, laughing at a person (or group of people) also makes him look smaller. That not only hurts the person who is belittled, it poisons the atmosphere for everyone within hearing range.


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We do not quit playing because we grow old, we grow old because we quit playing. - Oliver Wendell Holmes

June 2, 2011
As I have just become eligible for Medicare, I remember that while I can't stop aging, I can choose not to grow old.
            

Oliver Wendell Holmes spent thirty years on the bench of the U.S. Supreme Court, retiring only after he turned 90.  He credits his endurance in such a serious job to having maintained his youthful playfulness.  We don’t need to give up the good things about childhood when we grow into old age.


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